Flower Essences and Vibrational Healing: Healing Relationships
As each one of us empowers the process of individuation in this fast-paced world, we become increasingly aware of the need to nurture and care for our personal/intimate relationships. As we change, our relationships change. Keeping up with one another’s life cycles can be demanding and challenging, and it is difficult to embrace or keep up with the dynamic changes happening between two people. If you resonate with this life challenge, you are not alone. As we accelerate, our consciousness, habits and patterns must be addressed and changed. These shifts alter our inner life -- calling for clearer, cleaner and more authentic personal life experiences.
Many of us are no longer comfortable with the “old ways” as new and stimulating energy rushes in. (These life shifts are more pronounced with certain ages and I have seen many good relationships move through rocky waters during the cycles of age 28 to 31, 38 to 41, and 58 to 61. If you are in the first or third age range, you are experiencing a Saturn Return. Do not despair. There are many rainbows awaiting you. It is a portal of initiation.) There are several aspects and astrological cycles influencing relationships for better or for worse. Do not act in haste. Take the time to realign with the new energies and try to give your relationship a break. I have seen many beautiful relationships saved, altered and renewed when two individuals choose to seek guidance from within.
To heal a relationship, we must heal our own selves first. This is essential. Otherwise, we may attract the same situation over and over again, perhaps with a different theme, until we become conscious of what needs healing. Therefore, the first step in a relationship session with me begins by looking into each individual’s birth chart to examine the karmic imprint, challenges, gifts, and needs of each person. Identifying one’s Soul Pattern assists us in finding the areas of life most likely to cause projections and unhappiness, mainly with the intimate partner.
Before throwing the baby out with the bath, try these three suggestions as a way to improve the quality of your relationship.
1) Practice the Law of Love. If you love it, it will love you back.
2) Walk your talk. Follow through with your words and commitments.
3) Treat others as you would wish to be treated. If you want a back rub, give one. If you want to be told “I love you,” say it first.
Flower essences can assist with this process. Here are three suggested flower essences that will help with this process of love and healing.
Sagebrush: This flower essence helps us to clear and purify illusion and fog from our Higher Vision. When we are stuck, unable to see through denial and self-destructive patterns, Sagebrush cleans the aura, offering insight and clarity. This is a wonderful essence for partners to take together, especially those who wish to cut through to the core of essential truths regarding the relationship and the thought forms surrounding it.
Calla Lily: This flower essence bridges the soul and body, sexuality and spirituality, and the male and female aspects of the Self. The essence harmonizes sexual tensions -- allowing for a calm and gentle purification of one’s primal body. This essence is especially helpful for partners who wish to open their whole body and spirit to the art of lovemaking with balance and sacredness.
Nootka Rose: All rose essences open the heart chakra and have the capability to heal the heart. Nootka Rose brings joy and happiness to relationships, restoring love that may have been buried beneath the stresses and strains of everyday living. The essence heralds a reunion with the heart within, and with the beloved.
The Bach flowers Impatience and Elm are very good additions to the above essences when you are overwhelmed and irritable.
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Remember, “Nations are Healed Because People are Healed.”
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